Testimonials
“The staff at Human Life is extremely caring and compassionate”
“This was an unplanned pregnancy. After finding out I was pregnant, it took me two days to come to grips with it. I had planned that I wanted to keep the baby, but it was important to speak with my boyfriend (the father) of what was best for both us and the baby. I was extremely nervous, with a million thoughts in my head. I was very scared to inform my parents of the news...
“The staff at Human Life is extremely caring and compassionate. From the minute I walked in the doors, their kind smiles and warm voices helped to alleviate some inner pain. The first time I visited, I had a pregnancy test, ultrasound, and an Introduction to the Care Program.
“With just beginning the Care Program, I am finding it to be very beneficial. I am taking these classes with my boyfriend and the time being spent is helping us become closer and understand the pregnancy more.
“I am due in a few months and I am looking forward to this date more than anything. I am beginning to feel more and more prepared each day. Human Life Services is a great “back bone” to have!
“Being pregnant can be a very overwhelming idea, especially with this being my first child. With my boyfriend, Human Life Services, and family support I feel as though I can make it. Some days are certainly tougher than others, but by the grace of God I am sure I will pull through. My relationship has gotten stronger and together my boyfriend and I are preparing for the new future that lies ahead of us. We feel so blessed to become parents.”
“Human Life Services boosts up my confidence”
“When I first came here, I was unsure about my pregnancy. My Mom brought me because this was the place where she found out that she was pregnant. So it was a thrill to come to the same place that she found out she was pregnant with me. Coming to this place really made me love my pregnancy even more. The staff was amazing. They helped me through my relationship and pregnancy also. They made me feel good especially when we discussed our religious beliefs. Just overall I was set with my inner self. Thank you all.”
Her baby “will be here any day now, and I feel confident in meeting my little bundle of joy. I feel Human Life Services boosts my confidence in taking care of my newborn baby.”
“A healthy decision”
“When I found out I was pregnant, I was extremely scared, unsure, and had no idea what my next move would be. My boyfriend and I had only been together about 7-8 months, and we were living with my parents. The immediate thought we both had was abortion. I scheduled an abortion with Planned Parenthood Services – which I had been through once already, and was familiar with what was to come along with that decision. Three days before I was due to go in, I called and canceled my appointment. With no insurance and no clue where to turn next, my mother got online to research pregnancy care consulting that did not require insurance.
Human Life Services was the first to come up so we called and scheduled an appointment for an ultrasound to see exactly how far along I was. This day was a day that changed the rest of my life to come. Upon arrival, the ladies were extremely friendly and welcoming and I did not feel judged or uncomfortable at all – which is exactly the opposite of my initial thoughts of going here. I sat and spoke with the nurse for quite some time before going back to get my ultrasound. At this point, I still was not 100% positive on keeping this baby – but I was taking the first steps needed to allow this to be a healthy decision. During this first visit they had informed me of the Care program and let me know it was available if I chose to participate in something like this. A couple weeks later, after going to the first doctor appointment and continuing on with my decision to keep the baby, I called and set up everything to join the program. I wasn’t exactly sure what to expect, but once I came a couple of times I really warmed up to my counselor, and took the program seriously. Every week we did a different topic/stage of baby care that I feel was all very informative and will come in helpful. From emotional changes that occur during pregnancy to breastfeeding and car-seat safety – every aspect has taught me at least one new thing. I also enjoyed coming to my meetings every week for the support and advocacy I received from my counselor and the center. Having somebody to talk to that was an “outsider” in the situation was always comforting and sometimes stress relieving.
We all can use a little guidance every now and then – especially during a time like this in my life - and I’m extremely thankful I had the chance to be a part of the program and the center. I feel I have gained the knowledge and confidence I need to parent my child to the best of my ability. I would recommend this program to anybody. I did not think it would be for me at first, but it actually turned out to be one of the best decisions I’ve made! Nobody can ever receive too much knowledge – support – or love. Thank you to the women at the center for really caring, and being a part of the beginning of my journey. I truly believe you were heaven sent.”
“I’m thankful for everything I learned”
“Well, how I found out about Human Life Services is from when I went to my appointment at York Hospital. They gave me a paper with the information on it. I didn’t find out until I was 6 months pregnant. So I called to see how it was and went to my appointment. I liked it so I kept going. This was an unplanned pregnancy. Yes, I was sure I wanted to carry my baby. I do have a good family to support me when I need it.
This is my first baby. I was very happy, not scared at all because it’s my first experience with a baby. When I first came to Human Life Services, the staff treated me well. They were very nice and helpful. They made me feel welcome. When I went there I didn’t receive any ultrasounds or pregnancy test because I was already 6 months into my pregnancy. The sessions I most benefitted from was from the videos and the worksheets I’ve done. My counselor made me feel comfortable, happy and of course welcome.
I now have my baby boy. I think Human Life Services made me a very good parent because I learned a lot of things there, things I never knew before. Yes, I’m thankful for everything they gave and did for me, and everything I’ve learned.
Finally, I would like to say thanks again for everything and for being there for me.”
“I was guided with knowledge on my baby’s growth”
“I am age 20, and I gave birth to my baby in January. Just three months ago, my boyfriend and I were going to be homeless and were looking online for help and stumbled upon Human Life Services on multiple sites for York, PA pregnancy help. When I called and spoke of my situation, I was given an appointment right away. On that day I had a pregnancy test to verify I was pregnant, of course, and then was told all about the Care Program. Even though Human Life Services couldn’t help me with housing I was guided with knowledge on my baby’s growth which I never knew all the detail we know nowadays. My boyfriend and I went into a homeless shelter after joining the Care Program, but even they didn’t give us the same respect, compassion, and help as my peer counselor at Human Life Services (and all the staff there). I wasn’t sure if the baby would be safe, secure, and happy with us and adoption was an option. HLS gave us information even on adoption which was extremely helpful.
After every session, my counselor prayed with us. We were homeless and while homeless our car got totaled and was not working. My boyfriend and I have an apartment, a new car, and he works a small temp job (better than nothing). My counselor's prayers, I believe helped us. She has been not only the nicest, but most respectful person I’ve been around in a long time. No judgments, easy to talk to, and shares a lot of life experiences that are useful to our baby. If it wasn’t was HLS I wouldn’t know so much about sickness, swaddling, hygiene, and safety for my baby. We are lucky and grateful for the Care Program and HLS.”
